Both Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy are recognised by many therapists and clinicians as being powerful goal-directed therapies . Substantial empirical research supports this fact. The cognitive behavioural approach is to focus on the root of emotional disturbance – our thinking. Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy is a methodology whereby hypnosis is integrated into the Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.
What is a cognitive and behavioural approach?
The cognitive and behavioural approach is based on the philosophy that our own thinking determines how we respond to any situation we encounter. Our thinking, our feelings and our behaviour are interdependent. The ability to recognise the interdependency of thinking, feeling and behaviour, together with the acceptance of emotional responsibility, is the core of our emotional wellbeing and can also contribute significantly to our physical health.
Every day we face events which can contribute to our emotional responses; however, they do not cause the response. In fact, it is inconsequential as to whether an event is real or imaginary. We are not “disturbed “or “upset” by events themselves, rather, it is how we have learned to react to them. If events were responsible for our reactions then we would all react in the same way to any given event. The reaction which coincides with an event is a consequence of what we choose to believe about the event.
More about events
An event might be a person, a place, an occurrence, a world disaster, an illness or a rejection, and our emotional response to such an event is within our control. In other words, each of us is responsible for our own emotional reaction to an event; this responsibility is not shared with others. Likewise, we are not accountable for the emotional responses sustained by other people to events which result from our actions or behaviour, even if our behaviour may have been a contributing trigger. How often have you heard statements such as: “Missing a deadline makes me feel awful “, “The state of the world depresses me”, “Bad driving drives me mad” , “She makes me so angry” or, “Public Speaking scares me”? The fact is that none of these events make you feel anything. However, these events can trigger thoughts, and it is these thoughts which can result in either healthy or unhealthy emotions or symptoms. Our beliefs about certain events can be rational, healthy and flexible or they may be irrational, unhealthy and inflexible. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy focuses on irrational, unhealthy and inflexible beliefs which may result in a myriad of unhealthy consequences, (for example anger, depression, anxiety, headaches, eating problems, IBS and unhealthy behaviours).
Missing a deadline by itself does not make you feel awful. However, your belief that missing a deadline is something which must not happen might be the reason you feel “awful “. Missing a deadline is an event which has a trigger that activates an unhealthy/irrational belief you are holding. Likewise, the state of the world and bad driving do not make you do or feel anything. They are events which have a trigger that activates unhealthy /irrational beliefs.
It is a fact of life that bad, sometimes very bad, things do happen; life can be very difficult, uncomfortable and unfair. The manner in which we perceive these negative events determines our response. It is important to recognise that the approach which assumes that you have responsibility for your emotional responses neither condones “ badness “ nor suggests that we have responsibility for “badness “ which may take place. However, this approach does presuppose that we have a choice about how we respond to events in our lives, irrespective of their perceived “goodness” or “badness”.
Whether your feelings or behaviour in response to an event in your life are appropriate or inappropriate depends on whether the belief triggered by the event is a healthy or unhealthy belief.
More about beliefs
Our beliefs can be healthy or unhealthy. A healthy belief is realistic, rational, appropriate and flexible. An unhealthy belief is unrealistic, irrational, inappropriate and rigid. It is the unhealthy beliefs which give rise to unhealthy consequences, for example anger, jealousy, guilt, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and self-worth, obsessions , self pity, world pity, behavioural problems (such as eating issues, excessive drinking and avoidance), physical problems (such headaches and IBS) and much more.
In accordance with the philosophy of cognitive behavioural therapy, unhealthy beliefs are a consequence of having rigid rules about how we would like life to occur. Our strong preferences as to how we would like life to be have developed into irrational, rigid and dogmatic demands which we believe must be met; if not, we become disturbed in ways such as described above.
The aim of cognitive behavioural therapy is not about changing your preferences! The aim is to help you to change your unhealthy thinking so that logically and emotionally you are able to accept: “just because I really want my preferences in life to be met, that does not mean they have to be met and that when life’s events are contrary to my desires and hopes it is not an indicator that life is awful, people are awful or that you are a failure and worthless and that you cannot cope”.
How does Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy compare to Cognitive Behavioural Therapy?
While the philosophy behind cognitive behavioural hypnotherapy and cognitive behavioural therapy is the same, hypnosis, which is a means of enhancing communication, can influence the effectiveness of the therapy. Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy simply involves the integration of hypnosis into the therapy. Hypnosis and cognitive behavioural therapy are a powerful combination. Hypnosis enhances the effectiveness of therapy and also can bring about results in fewer sessions than might be needed otherwise. Read more about hypnothrapy here http://www.stephaniemaclennan.com/hypnotherapy.html